Living Above Neutral

Practical Ideas for Making Every Day Matter

Supplication

Wednesday, 23 April 2008 09:17 by Sonjia

Mondays, I post at Writers In The Storm. Visit WITS to read this week's discussion of prayer and supplication.

I would love to hear your comments. 

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Giving Credit Where Credit’s Due

Saturday, 19 April 2008 07:45 by Sonjia

Do you ever feel like you’re learning the same life lesson over-and-over again?

“I should know this by now,” becomes a yearly—perhaps even weekly—mantra.

With an ironic laugh, I’m realizing that today’s lesson should be one I know by heart. Still, I felt a moment of discovery as the thought occurred to me, “Only by God’s grace will my writing be published.” Whew. Typing the words on my keyboard creates bittersweet feelings.

I remember when I realized that finding that special someone is God’s grace…and His grace alone. Undeserved. Unmerited. Gift. My beauty (lol), charm or wile would never secure my lifelong mate. A husband comes from the hand of God as a present. The only thing missing’s the bow.

I learned the lesson again when the doctor said those unimaginable words, “You can’t have children.” My lungs refused to inflate…black dots, called floaters by ophthalmologists, blotted out the face of the hated doctor. Undeserved. Unmerited. Gift. Feelings of entitlement fled as I realized that children, too, come from God.

I should know by now that every good things comes from God…

Why do I forget? When the dust settles from my fit-throwing (hm, good thing the toaster was already broken!), I remember…oh yah…

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Everyday Things

Thursday, 17 April 2008 06:00 by Sonjia

My post to Writers In The Storm (WITS) is a little late this week.

Please visit WITS for posts on this week's topic: Thanksgiving.

 

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Out Of Focus

Monday, 7 April 2008 02:58 by Sonjia

 
Keeping things in proper focus
is a challenge for all of us.
I invite you to visit
for this week's discussion about confession.

I post each Monday on WITS.
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Adoration: The Complete Picture

Sunday, 6 April 2008 12:39 by Sonjia

 To feel awe, devotion, idolization, reverence, veneration, love
…To enjoy enthusiastically, excessively
…To eat up, dote on, delight in
To adore

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Adoration: A Head and Heart Thing

Tuesday, 1 April 2008 09:41 by Sonjia


Adoration begins in the head with a right understanding of God. But all head with no heart presents only half a picture of adoration. Head and heart have to come together.

Our minds are actively engaged in the affairs of the heart. When I think about my husband working until 3:00 a.m. to get this website up-and-running, my heart flip-flops. Wow! He really loves me! My mind fondles the kind acts of my husband. As I review each one, my heart responds.

When we explore the person of God with our minds, our hearts respond. How can we turn our minds to God and further foster a deep, rapturous love for God?

 

7 Ways to Rekindle My Love Affair With God

Write a list of God’s attributes and meditate on each one.

Write a list of God’s good gifts in my life.

Write a love letter to God.

Write a love poem to God.

Go for a walk with God. Imagine Him right beside me and talk with Him.

Read five psalms and look for characteristics of God.

Recall one kind act God performed in my life. Review the incident in my mind.

 

Do you have other ideas for fanning our hearts' flames for God?
Please post your ideas in the comments section. I'd love to give them a try!

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Adoration: Mind Matters

Monday, 31 March 2008 14:44 by Sonjia

Today I posted at Writers In The Storm.

Visit here to read about adoration.

What is adoration? Though adoration seems like an antiquated word, unraveling its meaning reveals important truths for each of us. 

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A River of Gifts

Friday, 28 March 2008 18:45 by Sonjia

"Every desirable and beneficial gift comes out of heaven.
The gifts are rivers of light cascading down
from the Father of Light."

James 1:17 (The Message)



My children climbed down the banks of the Trinity River. They scrambled across the crooked trunks of fallen trees and dangled their hands into the bubbling water. They watched wide-eyed as a leaf dropped into the stream, twirled three times and sped away.

Gifts—faster and more numerous than I can count—pour across me. They pick me up and twirl me in a dance of thanksgiving. Coming from the Father of Lights, many blessings brighten my life:

· Husband, children and friends
· Parents, sister and in-laws
· Church, neighborhood and city
· Cars, house and computers
· Mission, ministry and Savior

I have two additional sparkling gifts from God—Jayme Durant and Helen Hanson, my writing partners.

Jayme writes from the heart as a mother who’s waded through deep waters. I relish her wisdom, compassion and insight on the affairs of life.

Helen writes saucy humor that’s sure to bring giggles as well as a fresh perspective to many a mundane footnote in life. Ever been bitten by a bug? Wait ‘till you hear about Helen’s tango with death because of one little itchy bit of mischief. Just don’t ask where the grim ripper sank it’s chompers!

For encouraging, challenging and entertaining vignettes on life, visit WITS—Writers In The Storm. I’ll be posting to http://www.writersinthestorm.com/ each Monday!

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Writing Like A Pro Workship

Saturday, 15 March 2008 18:44 by Sonjia

In May, I'm teaching a series of writer's workshops for the Aubrey Public Library.
If you want to write nonfiction, but have no idea where to begin, please come to this free class Tuesday nights, May 13, 20 & 27th from 7:00-8:30 p.m.

The following how-to for article writing will help get your feet wet:

Write Articles - wikiHow

How to Write Articles


from wikiHow - The How to Manual That You Can Edit

Whether it's for a magazine, newspaper, your teacher, or even wikiHow, writing an amazing article whittles down to one widely-adaptable technique. Here's how to use that technique to your advantage.

Steps


  1. Determine your topic. Exactly what are you going to write about? Brainstorm for ideas if you have to. When writing for wikiHow, you may even wish to refer to requested topics for ideas.
  2. Figure out who your audience is. Are you writing for a beginner, an intermediate, or an advanced audience? For example, if you are writing an article about "Creating PowerPoint Slides," are your readers new to PowerPoint, or business people looking for advanced tips?
  3. Do your research. How well do you know the topic? Is it something you can write easily about with little or no preparation, or do you need more information from experts in the field?
  4. Decide on the length of the article. Teachers, magazines, and newspapers will often give you a limit. wikiHow articles, on the other hand, are often "as long as they need to be and no longer."
  5. Compile a list of possible sources for you to consult. This can include documents, internet research and people to talk to.
  6. Write either an outline or a summary of your article. This will help bring the concept of the article into sharper focus.
  7. Write the rough draft of the article as follows:
    • Tell your readers what you are going to tell them. This is your introduction. For example:
      • This article explains how to create a PowerPoint slide presentation. It covers the following information: choosing a theme, creating a title slide, and creating topic slides.
      • The information in this article is written for a beginner. The author assumes that you have never used PowerPoint.
    • Tell your readers what you promised to tell them. In this section you tell them how to choose a theme, create a title slide, and how to create topic slides.
    • Tell your readers what you just told them. For example:
      • This article taught you how to create a PowerPoint slide presentation. You learned how to choose a template, how to create a title slide, and how to create topic slides.

  8. Check over your piece for presentation.
    • Check for faulty information. Have you double-checked your facts?
    • Delete any unnecessary or contradictory information. The only time you should have information that doesn't support your topic is if you're doing a "point-counterpoint" piece.
    • Eliminate anything that is just taking up space. Don't fill your work with fluff. If you need to do more research, go ahead and do it.
    • Check for grammar and spelling errors.
    • Read it aloud to yourself to make sure the text flows smoothly.

  9. Rewrite the article as often as it takes.
  10. Turn in your completed article.


Tips


  • Neither the outline nor the summary for your article has to be in traditional I, II, III format. The point of formatting is to help you. If you feel you can find your focus by writing a list of incomplete sentences, then go for it. Later, if your teacher wants a formal outline, you can create one from the article itself.
  • By checking grammar and spelling errors last in the editing process, you won't waste any time by correcting those on something you may delete.
  • If you're writing for a newspaper or magazine and are new to professional writing, it's customary to introduce yourself and your story in a query or pitch letter. Find the name of the editor who will be handling your piece (i.e.; if you're writing an article about cars for a newspaper, find the name of the car-section editor). This information can be found in the masthead, a box containing the names of the editors, usually found near the front or comment pages of a publication. Write a catchy but brief outline of what your story is about and why that publication's readership would be interested in it. Also include a few lines about your experience as a writer. The tone of this letter should be professional, but affable and friendly. It is not the place to make demands, or admit your shortcomings as a professional writer. Discussing wages and freelance fees should come after the editor has accepted your pitch.
  • If you have no experience as a professional writer, do not start off pitching columns (opinion pieces). Columns are generally reserved for people who have either been working at a publication for a very long time, or for people who have a particular expertise in a field. If you're new to writing, start small. Think obituaries, human-interest stories and simple news articles. It's generally easier to start with newspapers than with magazines. Try writing for life, fashion, arts, cars or travel sections before pitching stories to news. These sections tend to be understaffed and therefore have a greater budget for freelance writers.
  • If you're interested in pursuing a career as a writer, be realistic. People who make their living as writers generally start to build their portfolio of published work as early as high school. It generally takes even the most dedicated writer several years before he can make a living off of the trade. In other words, don't quit your day job. Ease into writing gradually, perhaps doing freelance pieces while maintaining a more stable job part-time.
  • Take some courses in both non-fiction and fiction writing. Not only will they help with your work, but also you can make contacts in the business by getting to know your professors and fellow writers. This will help you to be taken seriously when you start pitching articles for publication. Being a good freelance writer means knowing how to write and how to network.
  • Make sure your article answers five questions: why, where, when, what and how.


Warnings


  • When writing for a newspaper or magazine, do not do so for free. Ask what their freelance fee is beforehand. Your pay will usually be calculated on a per-word basis. Your work is valuable. Writing for free demeans the profession and makes making a living more difficult for those of us who depend on freelance fees to pay the bills. (But if you're just starting out, volunteering to do some articles for smaller community papers, student publications and trade magazines is a great way to build your portfolio. Be warned that these publications rarely have the money to pay freelancers anyway.)
  • Make sure to give yourself plenty of time to write the article. If you don't, then you'll be rushing at the last minute to create something that isn't representative of what you can truly do.
  • Do not be a diva. Your work will go through several editors, copy-editors and fact checkers before being published. It will be changed. Pulling a temper tantrum is a surefire way to not be invited to work for that publication again.
  • Your reputation as a writer is almost as important as the work you submit, do not make errors or plagiarize. Copying something without attribution is the quickest way to get blacklisted as a writer. Keep your notes and source lists handy so that your editors can verify your work. If you do make a mistake, come clean immediately and apologize profusely.
  • Don't miss deadlines. Generally speaking, a late article is worse than a mediocre one.
  • Literary circles are small and gossipy. Don't say anything bad about a fellow writer or editor, ever. You never know who's married to whom.


Things You'll Need


  • Something to write with: computer, pen and paper, etc.
  • An email account to pitch and submit stories. (Something vaguely professional, no one will take butterflywings23@hotmail.com seriously.)
  • Research materials. Either go to your bookshelf, the library or find an expert on the topic.
  • Access to a database like Lexus Nexus or factiva. Be sure to see what others have already written on the topic.


Related wikiHows





Article provided by wikiHow, a collaborative writing project to build the world's largest, highest quality how-to manual. Please edit this article and find author credits at the original wikiHow article on How to Write Articles. All content on wikiHow can be shared under a Creative Commons license.

 

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Misunderstood: A Christmas Tale

Thursday, 27 December 2007 01:42 by Sonjia

I leaned against the doorjamb and watched the
neighbors loading their Dodge Colt. The young couple
seemed too young if you asked me. The scuttlebutt
around town was they were married in a shotgun
wedding—and we know what that means.

Right after marrying, they moved into the fixer-upper
next door. Then the girl left for three months. I
heard she was staying with a cousin out-of-town. Well,
she came back obviously in the family way. Why in the
world would a bride leave her new husband to live with
a cousin for three months?

Strange.

Still, the young man has some decent carpentry skills.
I love their new front door. I might get him to make
me one. I'm sure they need the money, and I wouldn't
have to pay him much since he's a newbie. Hm.

Well, they're pulling out. They have to register with
the government in a different county. I told them that
he could do it for both of them. Seems to me the girl
should stay home. Her baby's gotta be due soon and
riding too long makes a pregnant gal swell. Oh well.
Their choice.

I'm taking care of their puppy while they're gone. How
could I say no? Besides, they'll only be gone three
weeks and it seemed neighborly to agree.

Good thing they'll be back soon. I don't much like
puppies. I like dogs even less.

I was challenged to write a 250-word creative retelling
of the Christmas Story.
Various writers participated in
the challenge. Stories ranged from a bug's perspective to
that of a poor widow hiding near the barn. During the busy
holiday season, I enjoyed spending some time thinking about
Christ's birth with fresh eyes.

If you'd like to give this challenge a try, I'd love to read your
creative results. Post them in the comments section.


Thanks for visiting and have a very Merry Christmas!

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